“You are a Jewel in his Crown”



Dating is a form of courship consisting social activities done by two persons with the aim of each assessing the other’s suitability as spouse. While the term has several senses, it usually refers to the act of meeting of and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity in public, together, as a couple and this period of courtship is a precursor to engagement or marriage.


 Continual with points 3 thru 7, use the time wisely to gather facts:


3. Does this man have a vision for his life? Is he running with that vision? Remember, God decided Adam needed help once Adam got busy DOING his assignment. As we saw Adam, a man doesn’t need help until he is busy doing what he was created and called to do. Is your guy guided by a sense of destiny and purpose? You are going to submitted to this man, make sure that he’s vision in life is guided by God. You want a man who is firmly anchored in his identity in Christ. Remember we are looking for a man who will be priest and leader of his home. His first instinct should be to want to cover you, redeem you, and provide for you. Your job is to decide if this is the man God has ordained for you to complement.


4. The man in your life should not desire to move into your house, only into your heart. A man who prepares for your future has made his intentions clear. A man who is husband material has the means to take care of a wife, like a job. He is a responsible human being who understands he needs to have something to offer. In short, a man should have the means to be a suitable lover for you.


5. Check out his buddies. Everyone knows birds of the same feather flock together, yet most women fail to see the connection between a man and his friends. A man’s pals tell you a lot about the person that you haven’t seen yet. Everyone knows how to put his best foot forward. Don’t stay focused on the foot, checkout the rest of the body! What do’s he speaks about the most? The word of God says: The man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks.  (Luke 6:45Luke 6:45
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45 El hombre bueno, del buen tesoro de su corazón saca lo bueno; y el hombre malo, del mal tesoro de su corazón saca lo malo, porque de la abundancia del corazón habla la boca.j

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6. Check out his relationship with his mother. How does he treat her? This is your preview of how he will treat you. There are lots of men who, because of a negative relationship with their mothers, really don’t like women, yet say they do. Unresolved issues between mother and son continue between husband and wife.


7. Remember that a man’s family reveals the cloth from which he’s cut. Take note and decide whether you want your future with the man in your life to look like his present family situation.


Isaac and Rebecca – “A Love Story”


Genesis 24:15Genesis 24:15
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

15 Aconteció que antes que él acabara de hablar, salió Rebeca con su cántaro sobre el hombro. Rebeca era hija de Betuel, hijo de Milca, mujer de Nacor, hermano de Abraham.l

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tells us of a wonderful love story read on. Genesis 24:63Genesis 24:63
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63 Había salido Isaac a meditar al campo, a la hora de la tarde, y alzando sus ojos vio los camellos que venían.

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On the day when the Abraham’s servant and Rebecca arrived, Isaac was meditating in the fields. He looked up and saw camels coming toward him. Who is that beautiful woman there?” he wondered.


At the same time Rebecca looked toward Isaac. “Who is that handsome man?” she asked Abraham’s servant.”That is Isaac.” She quickly covered her face with her veil. But her eyes shone when Isaac stopped her camel. It was love at first sight.


God had known just the right person to care for Isaac and just the right person to care for Rebecca. God has just the right person to care for you also sister, let him show you his Glory!







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